There’s no cost greater than feeling regret for not fulfilling your ambitions.
Back in school, I wanted my book to be published. Yes, In my 9th grade, the book was ready. But I had no idea how to get published. I still wonder about the losses I have incurred by not publishing the book 25 years ago.
College happened and so did the job… I saw my friends and colleagues moving on with their life.. Yes, their dreams and ambitions were taken over by so-called life.
Men and women got busy. And the talks about dreams and ambitions became a thing of the past.
It was this thing that kind of suffocated me every day at work. Every day being lost. And I failed to understand that so ambitious people in school and college had suddenly settled for routine.
By not taking risks, by not moving out of their comfort zone, by taking it easy, they were making huge losses in their life and they were also doing a disservice to people waiting for them to come for help.
Let me explain -
Every 31st of December, each one has a book in their Todo list for next year. What if they wrote that book that year? People would look upto them with more respect. They would generate more income. Not only more impact on people through their book, but they would have become more confident about themselves. Even happy that they were able to finish one BIG thing from the todo list.
But this never happens. Because they don’t prioritize their book. They don’t invest in their learning. Now, with technology, it is not just about writing a book. It is much much more. They forget about their book just like they discontinue going to the gym by 7th of Jan…
The costs of not doing things they want to do keeps piling up in their head. It becomes so heavy after some time they become numb. They lose themselves on Netflix and other stuff that keeps them from facing the truth.
If you consider the unearned income you lost, it’ll just be staggering. I want you to do the math for yourself, if you want to learn the losses you have incurred. Yesterday I asked on a Facebook group about their losses and many of them had reached hundreds of thousands of dollars as loss of income and dream opportunities that could have happened if they had written one great book.
Not to mention the emotional toll you have to pay- fears, frustrations of compromising on your ambitions, depression because of not being able to deal with the reality of their condition.
Not being able to do the things we love doing makes us depressed and regret and blame our circumstances and others.
My goal here is not to demoralise you, but to empower you with the motivation, knowledge and skill and maintaining a positive attitude towards working for your life’s purpose and ambitions.
People start writing a book but due to lack of the right skills and mentoring, they suffer while writing it. Most of them hit writer’s block (which is a myth if you follow my system). In fact, they’re left with more pain and suffering, reaping the side effects of their effort in the wrong direction.
If you had the scientifically proven model to write a book, imagine the impact it would bring back to your life, the impact it would add to your readers, all the things you missed out on because of your delay would be possible, lots of money, resources and efforts would be saved from getting spent regretfully.
With all that impact and influence your book would bring to your life, you’ll become immortal in this mortal world. You will also have the freedom to build on your influence, business, connections, fruitful and loving relationships, learn new and exciting things you had wished to learn and most importantly not being in a state of helpless despair.
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